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Unabashedly taken from jeffbullas.com, but it's too good to pass up for a topic on ideas |
So, as the summer dawns on me and I find myself with time to finally return to my writing, I'm finding it so much easier to procrastinate rather than to clack-clack-clack away on my keyboard.
However, at an hour before dawn, an interesting thought dawned on me while my Roku is spinning away on TV shows I haven't seen (it's amazing how quickly one can burn through a season of something).
My little thought deals with the role of being a writer and the information I disseminate. Actually this is an old idea from way back, but never really explored it much, but without too many more delays -- delay -- delay --- de
Oh heck, shouldn't we, as media creators, provide ideas which further our people, society, and collective?
For example, on the show
Royal Pains Jill Flints character comments the need for Reshma Shetty's character to break age old traditions for something particularly stupid. The conversation is a bit less than organic and seems more like a PSA that someone wanted to share. The tradition: waiting to have sex after marriage: The rationale: we need to know if our soon-to-be spouse is good in bed otherwise we'll be miserable in our marriages.
Okay, so I know that this is sort of twisted logic has been getting a lot of play lately, because a friend of mine told me very much the same reason why her last relationship didn't work out; "the sex wasn't very good." But this is a horribly backwards way of thinking. There are reasons why cultures, traditions, scientists, psychologists, whole institutes, all recommend sharing the intimate experience of making a complex chemical attraction and nonsensical reaction of making love into a visceral dance of bodies is supposed to be played out between people who are special to one another -- and one of those reasons is simply because we need to learn and we need to be allowed to be foolish and make mistakes. Some of the most important things about being in a committed relationship is that we can do stupid things like accidentally taze yourself at a wedding party with one of the bride's gifts and know that you're still loved (not that I speak from experience or anything). Also, this comment from
Royal Pains, and others, is a very selfish sort of comment, "It had better be good and meet my expectations without any work on my part! Family, consequences, future situations, traditions, and all be damned to my carnal lust and lack of self control" (to hyperbolize the point).
So, why is this an issue of writer responsibility? Because writers, journalists, actors, show hosts; we are all media representatives. We set the tone, put ideas in motion, and reflect trends and ideas in motion. So, if we're passing along really stupid ideas like, "Sex is an innate skill" then we're putting possibly harmful and damaging thoughts into the minds of people.
So, shouldn't we, as media creators, put forth ideas that help progress human relationships and understanding of the human dynamic rather than putting an idea out that sounds more like a character (or writer behind the character) is attempting to justify making stupid choices?
Now, before people show up and scream, "You're against my freedom of expression of my sexuality and my sexual journey." No. I'm all for positive expressions of love. This is just one of the examples that came to me so early on. Others to discuss, why is every hero an anti-hero these days? Why have we moved away from the elements of komos in exchange for crass behavior, bawdy language, foul words to make a comedy?
On this note of making stupid choices drawn from the media...what the Hell is going on with all these Slender Man wanna-be proxies? Is this due to mental illness? Cultivation Effect?
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Stolen without shame from: http://www.blurryphotos.org/episode-64-slender-man/ simply because i love Legos and their rising parodies |
One thing I do want to say as I finish this post and the Sun begins to fill my windows and the silhouetted cat behind the curtain -- media consumption is actually a social process. Go talk and share what you're reading! What you're watching! Talk to a friend, a parent, share ideas, ask questions, demand greater product from those of us creating it (sort of why I love the CinemaSins Youtube channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/CinemaSins - their nitpicking helps to get the audience thinking, and hopefully producers, editors, and writers).